The previous round froze the recorded capabilities at the first handshake, on
the belief that the bridge ignores re-initialization. It does not: ext-apps
1.7.5's `_oninitialize` warns about the double-mount and then assigns
`_appCapabilities` and `_appInfo` from the new frame — "the latest appInfo/
appCapabilities replace the previous values", in its own words. Freezing left
this gate reporting capabilities the bridge no longer held, in both directions:
a handshake advertising `elicitation` followed by one without it still read as
advertised.
Every frame that passes the accept gate now replaces the recorded value, and
`appCapabilities` joins `protocolVersion` and `appInfo` in that gate since the
bridge's own schema requires all three. A frame the bridge would reject still
records nothing AND leaves the previous value alone — it is a route to changing
the gate in neither direction.
Signed-off-by: cliffhall <cliff@futurescale.com>