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## Motivation and Context
Align release workflow with the normal build workflow
## Changes
Update Gradle publish workflow: switch to `published` event, use
`mac…os-latest-xlarge`, and configure `JAVA_OPTS`.
## Types of changes
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- [x] Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
- [ ] New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
- [ ] Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing
functionality to change)
- [ ] Documentation update
- [x] CI update
## Checklist
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- [ ] I have read the [MCP
Documentation](https://modelcontextprotocol.io)
- [ ] My code follows the repository's style guidelines
- [ ] New and existing tests pass locally
- [ ] I have added appropriate error handling
- [ ] I have added or updated documentation as needed
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