feat: add support for custom server notifications (#580)

https://github.com/modelcontextprotocol/rust-sdk/pull/556 introduced support for
custom client notifications, so this PR makes the complementary change, adding
support for custom server notifications.

MCP clients, particularly ones that offer "experimental" capabilities,
may wish to handle custom server notifications that are not part of the
standard MCP specification. This change introduces a new
`CustomServerNotification` type that allows a client to process
such custom notifications.

- introduces `CustomServerNotification` to carry arbitrary methods/params while
  still preserving meta/extensions; wires it into the `ServerNotification` union
  and `serde` so `params` can be decoded with `params_as`
- allows client handlers to receive custom notifications via a new
  `on_custom_notification` hook
- adds integration coverage that sends a custom server notification end-to-end
  and asserts the client sees the method and payload

Test:

```shell
cargo test -p rmcp --features client test_custom_server_notification_reaches_client
```

crates/rmcp/src/handler/client.rs

@@ -56,6 +56,9 @@ impl<H: ClientHandler> Service<RoleClient> for H {
             ServerNotification::PromptListChangedNotification(_notification_no_param) => {
                 self.on_prompt_list_changed(context).await
             }
+            ServerNotification::CustomNotification(notification) => {
+                self.on_custom_notification(notification, context).await
+            }
         };
         Ok(())
     }
@@ -166,6 +169,14 @@ pub trait ClientHandler: Sized + Send + Sync + 'static {
     ) -> impl Future<Output = ()> + Send + '_ {
         std::future::ready(())
     }
+    fn on_custom_notification(
+        &self,
+        notification: CustomNotification,
+        context: NotificationContext<RoleClient>,
+    ) -> impl Future<Output = ()> + Send + '_ {
+        let _ = (notification, context);
+        std::future::ready(())
+    }
 
     fn get_info(&self) -> ClientInfo {
         ClientInfo::default()

crates/rmcp/src/handler/server.rs

@@ -90,7 +90,7 @@ impl<H: ServerHandler> Service<RoleServer> for H {
             ClientNotification::RootsListChangedNotification(_notification) => {
                 self.on_roots_list_changed(context).await
             }
-            ClientNotification::CustomClientNotification(notification) => {
+            ClientNotification::CustomNotification(notification) => {
                 self.on_custom_notification(notification, context).await
             }
         };
@@ -230,7 +230,7 @@ pub trait ServerHandler: Sized + Send + Sync + 'static {
     }
     fn on_custom_notification(
         &self,
-        notification: CustomClientNotification,
+        notification: CustomNotification,
         context: NotificationContext<RoleServer>,
     ) -> impl Future<Output = ()> + Send + '_ {
         let _ = (notification, context);